Every night we are committed to saying family prayer together and then the kids go on their way to bed. I read in an article once that as busy as we are in life, just 5 minutes can make a huge impact in our children's lives. Although hugs and kisses are given after prayer and before they run off, we make it a point to tuck each of them in at night and give them an extra smooch!
Those extra 5 minutes of tucking them in have offered me insight into their lives. I learn about the new cute girl at school or the mean substitute that wouldn't let the kids play on the monkey bars. Regardless of where the conversation goes, I learn something new each night. My husband would always ask the kids the question, "What was your favorite part of the day?" The kids are able to go to sleep at night focusing on something positive that occurred during the day.
I was always able to count on my parents to say goodnight to me each night. I remember my dad's funny stories as a kid about his love for animals and his mom's amazing cooking. I remember my mom taking the extra time to give me a big hug and kiss goodnight. I felt assured that I was loved and felt secure.
Whether it's reading the kids a poem by Shel Silverstein or letting them know the fun adventures you had when you were a kid, those 5 extra minutes can make a world of difference and memories that they, and you, will always cherish!
Cheers! Natalie
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